Where have all the adults gone - and why did they take their common sense with them??
What in the name of all that's holy let's a mom convince herself that it's OK to leave her child with a man she's known for less than a week?
Sister, I don't care how 'sensitive' he seems to be, or how good he is in bed, NO man wants to be with a child that's not his while you go to work for 12+ hours. A child who's unfamiliar with him, missing you, is tired of being bounced around from one person to the next and is a toddler on top of it all.
It's the perfect storm for abuse...
as you both painfully found out!
Unfortunately, her more than you!